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Como você dá o melhor na sua vida?
By viewing myself as the only competition. Accountability, transparency, honesty, integrity, discipline: by prioritizing these values in a day-to-day, process-oriented fashion, I am committing to self-improvement. Such a commitment inevitably associates you with others in the midst of success.
Conte-nos sobre a melhor experiência que você teve na vida.
My favorite and most memorable experiences tend to be personal, spiritual and subjective. As I age, increasingly my favorite experiences are culminations, the experience itself subtle: getting accepted into CSU-SB and graduating with my undergrad in Psychology; getting accepted into graduate school; launching my careers in yoga, personal training and astrology; and the simple but satisfying feeling of accomplishment after a personal yoga practice.
Se nós sentamos na praia e bebemos vinho e comemos boa comida só você e eu, o que você iria me dizer sobre você e sua vida?
Well, that depends what you would ask me! I'm not one to launch into narcissistic diatribes!
I've lived a varied life: ESPN journalist, Texas Hold 'Em poker professional, now sex worker and entrepreneur. I'd say I've walked a road of personal authenticity, gaining a hard-earned spirituality.
Conte-nos um pouco sobre si mesmo, se você fosse escolher algo, o que você gostaria que os outros absolutamente soubessem sobre você?
I live a simple, minimalist, disciplined life.
I read often, both fiction and non-fiction.
I enjoy staying up-to-date on the ways of the world, be it sports, politics, technology or medicine.
And, while curious, I am not nosey! I respect privacy, and while I view myself as a personable fellow, I never cross the line into getting into your business or requesting details you may not be comfortable divulging.
O que os outros deveriam saber absolutamente sobre você?
Clients should know that, first of all, I am a real person. That means the Golden Rule shall be just as efficaciously applied to me as it would to anyone else.
Secondly, I trust and value every client; whether I see them once or regularly, I remember each and every one. The experiences are what I treasure.
Finally: lighten up! There's no judgment here. I'm open to any dialogue, and while I do have my boundaries and limits, anything which I choose to partake in is, by definition, consensual and something which I enjoy.
So have at it!
Quais são 5 coisas que você não pode viver sem?
Quais são seus hobbies, o que você gosta de fazer em seu tempo livre?
I live a disciplined, almost plainly ascetic, lifestyle. My "vanilla" life includes daily Ashtanga yoga practice, personal training, astrological consultations, teaching, and psychological training and study as a graduate student. Freud once said "life is work and love," and I love my work and consider that the foundation of my life. More recently I've fallen in love with researching and investing in cryptocurrency, as well as starting up a Zen meditation practice.
If we exclude any work whatsoever, "fun" for me consists of art, especially music. I also enjoy spending time in nature -- especially the beach! -- and experiencing tea with friends and new acquaintances.
O que você gostaria que seus leitores soubessem sobre você que é único e até um pouco pessoal?
I approach my sessions with psychological mindfulness, granting whomever I am with my full attention and presence. Currently pursuing graduate work in Mental Health, I consider my work akin to sex therapy rather than a hedonistic, fulfilling session. While I do not see anything wrong with the latter -- and, indeed, have enjoyed such sessions with prior clients -- I now consciously engage with clients interested in more than a purely carnal, physical act.
The following article is a strong encapsulation of my "bedside demeanor," so to speak:
Que tipo de regime de dieta e fitness você segue?
I eat ~90% organic and am abstinent from any type of drugs, caffeine, marijuana or alcohol. I lift weights 1-2 times per week and practice yoga 5-6 times per week.
O que você faz para se divertir?
Staying active: any kind of sport, fitness class or outdoors-y activity.
Knowledge: a great book, course, lecture, or seminar.
Culture: traveling and exposing myself to experiences I would otherwise consider foreign, such as museums, exhibits, and people from broad walks of life.
Art: listening to music, exploring photography and scenery, spending time in nature.
O que você diria que são suas maiores qualidades e especialidades?
I'm perceptive and compassionate. I stand up for my integrity and politely but firmly set boundaries. I make a concerted effort to cultivate daily gratitude.
Com que frequência você viaja? Você prefere viajar ou você é mais um casero?
I travel as much as the opportunity presents itself! I prefer to unwind from my day by staying at home, listening to podcasts, reading books, taking hot baths, and conversing with trusted associates. While financially conservative, I am always open to travel if the accomodations make sense.
O que você mais gosta em si mesmo?
Developing patience and contemplative acceptance; being of service to the world; creating sacred moments within the mundane habits of everyday life.
Quais são as especificidades de seu estilo de vida que fazem quem você é?
A grounded authenticity in anything I do. Attention to detail, transparent honesty, and a full presence of each and every moment of life.
O que o distingue de todas as outras pessoas que você conhece?
Relating with people from all walks of life in an authentic manner. I give my best in every experience of life. I never try to be someone I am not, and am thoughtful and intentional about how I spend my time.
Qual é o seu "nicho"?
Granting my clients with full acceptance of their kinks and desires. I pride myself in establishing an authentic, safe environment where, within the sphere of our established boundaries, we are able to co-creatively explore a deeper level of intimacy and connection.