Entrevista

• O que o distingue de todas as outras pessoas que você conhece?
  I have had many tell me I am a beautiful man and that I exude lots of joyful, positive energy and perhaps that best makes me stand out.
• Conte-nos sobre a melhor experiência que você teve na vida.
  The best experience of my life...Wow...I can't say there was one. I've worked to move away from labeling too much as "bad" or "good" which then means "best" or "worse" aren't too important. Love the slogan, "One day at a time." Each day can be my best day/best experience...
  
  PS. Perhaps some of the best experiences are those that might have a lot of pain upfront as they can transform us into more loving, insightful, and kind individuals (even though telling someone that at the height of their pain is likely NOT helpful).
• Conte-nos um pouco sobre si mesmo, se você fosse escolher algo, o que você gostaria que os outros absolutamente soubessem sobre você?
  When I laugh, it is often infectious (but not like a virus)!
• Quais são seus hobbies, o que você gosta de fazer em seu tempo livre?
  Dancing, physical activity, and personal improvement reading are some of my hobbies.
• Como você dá o melhor na sua vida?
  I go the extra mile by being perfectly imperfect. This means I always do my best (and satisfaction is important).
  
  When my best is not good enough (or I make an error), I take careful note and work to do better next time--no fear, no shame, no guilt.
  
  Constant improvement is a a key focus for me and helping others (without enabling them) is important too.
• O que você faz para se divertir?
  I do all kinds of things for fun! My work activities are most always fun (or I'd do different work). Dancing and learning something new in an area of interest is ALWAYS fun.
• O que você diria que são suas maiores qualidades e especialidades?
  Determination, intellect, and resourcefulness.
  
  Let me also add being kind as I progressed in my New Thought studies. From working in the club environment as a dancer in my recent past (and in my 20s), there are a fair number of people who can be unkind at times.
  
  As I grew in my spirituality, I learned to not take it personally. One customer once told me, "You can't be serious that you are glad that I'm here after all the nasty things I said to you."
  
  I said, "Sir, actually I really am...you've purchased a drink, the bartender and owner benefits and so do I as I'm paid to be here." [NO sarcasm felt.]
• Que tipo de regime de dieta e fitness você segue?
  I workout three times a week and dance regularly.
  
  Diet-wise, fish and chicken, prepared in lean ways, are a staple along with a variety of grains, nuts, vegetables, and some fruits.
• Com que frequência você viaja? Você prefere viajar ou você é mais um casero?
  In ordinary times, I travel a few times a year and that is just fine. (I've had prior professional work where I traveled a lot so that isn't so important now.) I do love my home and spending time reading and working remotely. This means I lean towards being a homebody.
• Qual é o seu "nicho"?
  I do like most all types of people and have entertained them without bias--whether a lap dance at a club I have danced for, at a private party, or one-on-one.
  
  Though, my niche is typically with the executive types really--I've found they are serious on intent and resolute on both appointments and communication.
  
  Also, men who like flexing and posing tend to hire me just for that...oil up, workout, flex, and pose...
• Quais são as especificidades de seu estilo de vida que fazem quem você é?
  My lifestyle includes a regular focus on four parts of holistic health (physical, emotional, intellectual, and spiritual).
  
  Exercise, meditation, and challenging myself to improve and learn new things are components of my lifestyle. I have always made some time to give back to those less fortunate. I believe in karma.
  
  Importantly, I am who I am today because I've had a number of wonderful people touch my life at key moments, including a higher power working through them (even before I knew that). Gratitude is the attitude once again...
• O que você gostaria que seus leitores soubessem sobre você que é único e até um pouco pessoal?
  I have strong right- and left-brain skill sets.
  
  I've found that all kinds of people, regardless of "gifts" (and we all have them) and education, can teach me useful things!
• Se nós sentamos na praia e bebemos vinho e comemos boa comida só você e eu, o que você iria me dizer sobre você e sua vida?
  First, I love the beach, drinking I can take or leave, and the great food must be well-balanced and properly portioned! After that, I've had quite a non-traditional life and much joy the last few years and I'm so grateful.
  
  Gratitude is my Attitude! (On the inevitable tough days of life that happen every so often, it smooths things out a lot.)
• O que os outros deveriam saber absolutamente sobre você?
  I am honest, spiritually-centered, bright, and have been successful in many endeavors.
  
  I live my life for me now (with never an intent to harm or hurt others). I want the best for myself AND for others too.
  
  In building long-term personal and business relationships, I work to get to win-win outcomes.
  
  I want to be perceived as assertive and not aggressive (unless you need me to play that role--which I can do).
• O que você mais gosta em si mesmo?
  I think I most enjoy my ability to get-things-done and working determinedly, as necessary, to overcome obstacles--asking for help when a piece is missing and always doing my part fully.
• Quais são 5 coisas que você não pode viver sem?
  1. Quality people (insightful, fun, kind)
  
  2. Stimulation of intellect/growth
  
  3. Technology
  
  4. Good holistic health
  
  5. Nutrition and water