Entrevista

• Conte-nos um pouco sobre si mesmo, se você fosse escolher algo, o que você gostaria que os outros absolutamente soubessem sobre você?
  I work really hard to be empathetic. I'm not the center of the universe (unless that's what we're playing at on a given night. lol) and being empathic and open to the idea that your experience is just YOUR experience and not everyone else's, allows for some really beautiful moments of humility, self-realization, discovery, and love...as cheesy as it might sound.
• Quais são seus hobbies, o que você gosta de fazer em seu tempo livre?
  Plants, the gym, travel, music, adventure...it varies.
• Como você dá o melhor na sua vida?
  I don't do casual - I deep dive into whatever I'm exploring. I love learning and being exposed to new things/situations. I don't turn away when I'm nervous - I use it as fuel and dive in.
• Conte-nos sobre a melhor experiência que você teve na vida.
  Tricky one! I think it was getting sick while trekking in Peru - something about the beauty of the place made the fact that I was ill, fade into the background. It put things in perspective for me.
• O que você faz para se divertir?
  Travel, exercise, explore, etc.
• O que o distingue de todas as outras pessoas que você conhece?
  I notice beauty in everything - even the most mundane things. I don't quite understand how most people go throughout their day without noticing the beauty that surrounds them. Even in painful moments there's an odd beauty to be recognized.
• O que você diria que são suas maiores qualidades e especialidades?
  My "member"...but that's probably the #1 answer on this thing.
  I have great eyes, a pretty nice butt. I'm pale, which some guys find sexy. I've been told I have a sexy voice.
  This is so subjective - I'll leave it to you to decide.
• Qual é o seu "nicho"?
  I'm strawberry blond - so I guess my specialty is being halfway between blond and ginger. lol.
  I'm also really good at making people feel seen and heard. I love giving my attention to people. I do it as a top, I do it as a bottom, I do it receiving head, I do it giving head.
  Sex is communication, no matter how kinky the sex might be: it's primal communication and I love that about it.
• Com que frequência você viaja? Você prefere viajar ou você é mais um casero?
  I LOVE travel, do it relatively often, and hope to see as much of the world as possible before I die.
  I love trekking and camping as much as I love laying on a beach, listening to waves crash (note: I'm super pale so I'm single-handedly funding the sunscreen industry).
• Que tipo de regime de dieta e fitness você segue?
  I work out regularly but I'm not a fanatic. If I miss a few days I'm fine. I work out because it feels good and not because I'm dependent on my body to create a sense of self-worth.
  Diet? - sometimes I'm keto and sometimes I'm ice cream. Depends on the week/month/year. :-p
• Quais são as especificidades de seu estilo de vida que fazem quem você é?
  I'm equally captivated by adventures (sky diving, extreme travel, etc) and quiet nights doing nothing more than cuddling under a blanket, drinking tea (or whiskey), and watching shitty TV.
• O que você gostaria que seus leitores soubessem sobre você que é único e até um pouco pessoal?
  I'm all about being open, available, and vulnerable so there's not too much that I wouldn't share, if asked. I'm an odd mix - I think that's the most unique thing about me. I love to explore new worlds - sports, the arts, adventures, travel, hobbies. I'm eclectic sexually and socially.
• Se nós sentamos na praia e bebemos vinho e comemos boa comida só você e eu, o que você iria me dizer sobre você e sua vida?
  I'd tell you about how, as a child, I hated swimming but could spend hours walking along the water at the beach, having a conversation with the ocean. I was an introvert through and through and was convinced that I could communicate with the water.
• O que você mais gosta em si mesmo?
  My curiosity.
• Quais são 5 coisas que você não pode viver sem?
  Meaningful human interaction (sexual and otherwise)
  Nature - I am happiest when surrounded by sky, forest, and water
  Music, Theater, Film - the arts, in general
  The gym and/or some other form of exercise
  Travel
• O que os outros deveriam saber absolutamente sobre você?
  I don't tolerate cattiness, judgement, racism, classism, or any "ism", frankly.
  Playful banter? - sure, that's fun but if any of the sharp-tongued comments come from a legitimately dark place or are born of insecurity or ignorance then I don't have room for them in my life.
  I won't judge you as long as you aren't hurting anyone and consent is across the board. You do you and even if it's not my scene, I'll celebrate it.
  I think the community in the 21st century deserves a bit more love and compassion within its own walls.